They Will Return If They Love You
Love is a roller coaster of emotions.
It could either be " fighting, breathing, resting, or letting go
What about love, for example?
They see its true that love makes you do things you don't want to do
Inflicting your selfish ambitions on each other?
Is love deaf, unwilling to hear the screams and cries?
Is love so blind that it fails to recognize one another's true needs?
However, let go when this "love" begins to reveal its razor blades, cutting through every pulse you used to hold to.
Sometimes "love" the once who gave us the courage to rise
become the chains that blind us, and turns everything into a series of pensioned events
And when that happens, we need to allow ourselves to let go,
Let go of this "love" when it becomes selfish, greedy, impatient, unpleasant,
and nothing more than a barrel of sorrow and suffering.
Let go, no matter how much it hurts you to see them go.
Yes, love may be overbearing at times.
Love, like everything else on this planet, requires balance.
Keep on fighting, but when it's no longer healthy, give that up.
I believe this more than I believe that if they love you,
they would never leave in the first place,
because there are times when they must leave periods
when you two must separate and find themselves without the influence of your relationship.
It's never simple to find love. You don't say I love you because it's convenient; you say it because it's genuine.
Don't say it because you want your relationship to be safe,
because you don't want to invade your trust's four walls,
because you don't want an argument, because you dislike fights,
and because you would rather settle.
Don't hide the noticeable lines that could lead to this relationship's collapse.
Instead allow these lines to reach your hearts
since they are the lines that will determine whether or not we will succeed.
Please don't say it to lead me to believe everything is fine.
I want you to appreciate these three words you're letting go of;
I want you to understand that this love is and should be the foundation of our relationship,
and that if it's only said to be safe, I would rather you didn't say it.
I will understand if the moment comes when it's no longer convenient to say "I love you," or when it's extremely difficult to do so.
Despite the fact that I still want you to say it, I will understand.
I will understand the reasons for not being able to say it,
and I would rather accept that than hear you say it without meaning.
I honestly want us to work out this situation together.
But if you want to let go for a time,
so you may figure out your next steps and future goals;
If there are things you need to settle outside of us, go.
Do what you have to do. I won't make you stay if you don't want to.
Regardless of how much I want you to stay by my side, I will not insist on it.
Love is freedom, and I choose to let you fly without my chains tying you down. I want to release you from me.
I honestly want you to grow in all aspects of your life possible in your career, passion and dreams.
I believe you will succeed in the long run.
Deeply saying I want you to learn new things, get outside of your comfort zone,
acquire experiences, and uncover life's secrets.
To go out and explore life, looking for methods to fill up the gaps in your soul.
So you feel blissed by the things inside you, I want you to fix all the damages in you.
I want you to feel happy again, truly happy.
Love is giving, I want to use these hands to give you everything you need and to make the sacrifices that come with it.
I will put up with the grief that comes with it. And if our love is sincere, it will last.
Parting is never simple; in fact, nothing about love is easy;
it's something we both have to work for.
But I'm not going to wait for you.
I will learn as well, discovering who I am and what I want to do with my life.
And I will always adore you especially in the process.
I mean, is it really possible to despise someone? No, I don't believe so.
You will always be here, imprinted on my heart.
Let's make it work, nourish the love, and watch it grow.
And I know you will be just fine when you return, I know for a fact that I wont be here
to fill your emptiness, but I am an addition to you, a lovely spirit you may say.
I am going to lay out all of our flaws and mistakes so we can begin the process of healing.
There will be forgiveness if we truly love each other. Because love is all about accepting.
We shall empower forgiveness, to grow from strength to strength
I shall love you completely when we meet again
I will love you more than the aches, the tragedies, the misunderstandings,
the divergent paths we followed, more than all the challenges
And I won't let go as long as there are no valid reasons to do so.
I
will hold on because I'm at home, finally
Because, in the end, no matter how far we went out of our way,
how many people we met, how many years it took,
how many difficulties we faced;
no matter how many twists we took that caused great distance between us,
even if we're halfway over the world... real love will win.
They will always come back if they actually love you.
