Love isn't supposed to cause you more harm than good.
When the right person is in the right place at the right time,
everything happens automatically.
It is not difficult to fall in love.
Attachment is difficult, as is sadness, a
nd expectations are challenging.
It's difficult to overcome unconscious anxieties and prior traumas.
It's difficult to lose one's sense of security.
Getting out of your comfort zone is difficult.
It's hard to face the world alone when you thought you'd have someone to lean on.
It's difficult to admit you're lost and that a relationship would help you to find your way.
It's tough to see the one image of your future
in which you had the most committed breakthrough.
Love, on the other hand, is not tough.
What's terrible is all the extra burden that love can leave us with,
all that it hides, and then all that it exposes.
Love doesn't question if you should be together or not.
Affection doesn't leave you looking for
evidence that you should eventually return.
You don't have to wonder if you're worth someone's effort when you're in love.
Romance doesn't make you rethink your passions, your flaws, or the small details that make you who you are.
Adore does not make you feel like you have to compete for it with someone else.
Love does not require you to show your good in order to accept it.
Love is a symbol of life, not an idea.
It isn't something we need to analyze or evaluate.
Those we care about are present in our life at all times.
When presence meets passion, that is love.
Love is when you are just present in every simple minute of every ordinary day,
not in theory, not at some future date, not in promises, not in words.
Love is the most powerful remedy.
Rather than criticizing, they will help you in refining your views.
Instead of looking down on you, they will encourage you to see yourself in a more positive light.
Instead of trying to fix you,
they will support you as you work on yourself.
They'll find out what you want and need,
and they'll try their hardest to show you kindness,
gratitude, and effort on a daily basis.
Not because you asked them to,
or because it's the right thing to do,
but because that's what it's like to live with someone you care about.
If you're in a relationship that causes you more harm than good, it's time to go.
Because your true soulmate is someone who is there for you not run away from
